2010 Leadership Banquet: In the absence of gratitude, we all feel alone
Friday, May 7th, 2010All students are leaders, whether they are involved in ten organizations, or just one, or even none at all. All students are leaders for they are expanding their knowledge, opening their minds, chasing their aspirations, turning dreams into realities, embracing their passions, and leading their own lives as individuals. All students are leaders because they lead themselves down windy paths, roads decorated with obstacles, routes that diverge in various directions – they direct themselves. We take charge of our worlds, we, as students, pick which paths we follow and which paths we forge. We are leaders because we don’t let others control us – we craft our own destinies.
Leadership is a significant quality to have. Leadership is indubitable indispensable. And we all carry some sort of leadership within us, whether we actively show it or not, whether we have explored it and embraced it or not. There are those who take this attribute to the next level by guiding others. It is so great when these types of students are recognized, publically or privately, personally or socially. Unfortunately, not all of us are given the gratitude we deserve. The appreciation we warrant. The thanks we desire, even if we don’t admit it.
The 2010 Leadership Banquet of UMass Dartmouth was held on Friday, May 7. Many distinguished awards were given to distinguished students who truly deserved to receive such honors; however, many students were overlooked, underappreciated, and this can be quite disheartening. There were numerous awards given, but it felt like only a handful of student leaders took home an award; this is because some students earned more than one award. Why wasn’t each person limited to one win? Why weren’t more students recognized? After all, everyone at the banquet was a leader. Every student organization was comprised of magnanimous leaders.
While all the students who won deserved their awards, the Leadership Banquet should have been more equal, more fair. Sure, if you have a lot of friends or come from a large organization, you are going to get a lot of nominations. Sure, if you are involved with SAIL or Greek Life you will get multiple nominations. But what if you lead well in a small organization? What if you are part of different organizations besides the aforementioned? Does that mean you, as student leader, deserve less?
You can put all you have, exhibit an immense amount of drive and passion, and still go unnoticed. You can be a strong leader, but never be thanked for your effort and your heart.
The painful truth is that you won’t always be recognized and appreciated by others; you won’t always be thanked by the higher-ups; you won’t always get public recognition. So, in the end, you have to look inside yourself and discover who you are. You have to identify your strengths and leadership abilities and that essential driven passion that pushed you to become a leader in the first place. Because only you can keep the flames of leadership burning. Only you can ignite and reignite the fire within. Only you can decide which road you take, and which side-roads you explore. Although it is challenging, you must learn to be proud of yourself, and be proud by yourself. Otherwise, the fire will die, the road will come to a halt, and your non-disposable quality of leadership will be lost.
The Leadership Banquet should find a way to give gratitude to a wider range of student leaders next year. They should reach out to more individuals, as that is how you will make and maintain more leaders.
Leadership is like the sun – without it, the world would be a ceaselessly cold, dark place.